'Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.' H.C.Andersen
2010. szeptember 7., kedd
The scene of our honeymoon- An introduction to Zakynthos
As you might know, we spent there a week, from 13 to 20 August, and came home with great memories and lots of funny experiences about Greek people...not to mention our wonderfully tanned skin and our pre-pre-pre-intermediate knowledge of Greek language we succeeded to achieve during our stay.... this made most of the aboriginals look at us as we were Greek, too. (so as time passed, we not only had the appearance of a Greek man/woman, but also must have had a fantastic accent that made them think this:))
Altogether what I can say about Greece, our vacation and our vacation in Greece:
1. Greek food is absolutely great as long as you order lamb, salmon, sole fish, sword fish and Greek salad. We mainly ate lamb and fishes, these are the traditional stuff. Feta became one of my favourite cheeses. Greek gyros is special: it has tzatziki and chips in it. Fruits (mainly the grapes, peaches and melons) are extremely sweet and tasty, but be prepared you paprika lovers: here tomatoes are the main vegetables (or fruits or what): it is impossible to find paprika on this small island. And be aware: continental breakfast, which is the same every day, might cause a slight agony after the third day. And one more advice. If the half-drunk waiter gets to know that you are 'magyar' and happily comes to your table with small glasses of free peach schnaps (sweet peach pálinka) to drink with you: just smile and accept it. Remember: you get it free.
2. Greek people are originally crazy. Greek bus drivers are double crazy. Greek bus drivers driving without air condition are the craziest. Okay, not as much as my father, but crazy enough to be Greek.:)
3. The sea is shallow (for a while) warm (most of the time), clean and clear (mainly during non-wavy periods), shelled (until they are all collected) and SALTY (all the time). Salty not only for your mouth and tongue, but also salty for your nice little eyes.Be aware of the last fact and try to avoid ascending salty sea waves.
That was for today. To be continued soon...and yeah, pictures will come soon, too...
:)
2010. június 25., péntek
Becoming 'famous'
www.fenykepzelet.hu
Here go into Galleries/Wedding/E-session aaaaaaaaaaaand.....there we are!:)
2010. május 29., szombat
Still in Deutsch and other 'problems'...
Nowadays I'm still dealing and coping with those different German exam preparation books and heavy dictionaries (okay, that's not exactly true, usually I use the CD-ROM version of them, which is a lot faster and more practical). At least I'm half-happy now that I finally know, the written part of the exam succeeded. Now comes (on June 7, oh, why on this beautiful number...) Act 2, the oral part, which will be much more 'interesting'...khm. We'll see. I'll do whatever I can, but I can't guarantee neither original Deutsch or Austrian accent, nor imitated harsh 'hrrr' sounds...but I'm practicing, practicing...Whhharrrrrum? Because the exam itself was expensive enough to pass it...So, until June 7 I have here a bunch of topics with half-known, or even newer words to be memorized. Es ist wunderschön. Nicht wahr?
Another task of these days is to continue the wedding organization...this week we finally have found OUR ring, ordered it, and within 3 weeks it will be ready to take it home and keep it in a little box until the big day arrives. The rings are gold, white, beautiful, special, patterned, modern, glamorous, Italian, expensive....and yeah, they are not exactly the type we originally wanted, but we could not resist when noticing their special surface. (We haven't ever seen similar rings to these during our searches in other jewellery shops.) And what we wanted originally? Something, that goes with my engagement ring, has diamonds or zirkonia in it...previously, I planned to wear the wedding ring with the engagement ring side by side to each other, and well, finally this plan had to be modified. Wearing these two on one finger would be just too much. But at least I'll have rings on both of my hands...:) (By the way, did you know that though in the U.S. you wear your wedding rings on the left side, in Hungary engaged people wear it there and married couples wear it on the right?Interesting customs.)
During the past few weeks we also arranged other things, such as our honeymoon to Zakynthos, we met the pastor, I bought my jewellery, shoes, and other accessories, we bought the orange (or orangish...) ties and Zsolti's suit. So, all in all, a lot was done, still, several remained to continue with. The most urging next thing to be done is the music selection and the planning and printing of our invitation cards...
...but soon time will come and we'll send it to you.:)
2010. április 13., kedd
Deep in Deutsch
As soon as I have time, I'll upload pictures and will continue to entertain you:)
Until this happens, check out this webpage about Scottish dance (especially because I'm in the videos, too:)):
http://www.bstk.hu/video.htm
Can you find me?:)
2010. február 24., szerda
Out of the blue
A few days ago I've found a little journal with a few of my poems. I'll share one of my favourites with you, it has the title: 'Distances'. It was written in 1998, October 9, on a Friday evening (no, not my memory's sharpness is the reason for remembering:)...it was indicated above the poem itself). No one have ever read it before. You have the privilege to see it first.:)
In 1998 I was 16. 12 years passed since then...so unbelievable.
Universally, reading it with a stranger's eye, the poem may hold three meanings, can be interpreted in three ways. Romantic love, missing family members and searching for God. Or a mixture of these. What do you think? First look at the poem then see the explanation. :)
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2010. január 20., szerda
If you wanna have a wonderful and relaxing evening...
...watch these very funny, what's more, hilarious videos of mine! I spent (quite) a few minutes creating them...okay, really, just a few...;)
http://sendables.jibjab.com/view/KrgSA0Jfl1eguBb0
http://sendables.jibjab.com/view/we8yN1LGdejY9QZv
http://sendables.jibjab.com/view/mLJ1ZCDgyTWNEE1l
2010. január 3., vasárnap
Pre-Christmas and Christmas time



(these were my favourite ones...aren't they cute?)
and met food that looked
and even smelled like food from the traditional Hungarian Christmas Eve menue
(though I must admit: there were a few things I will never ever wish to try...for example, see the leftmost big bowl? Guess what it hid! Any ideas?I'll help you: the lower parts of hundreds of cocks...)
later on we also listened to traditional Christmas music in a non-traditional way: it was performed by a group of talented polar bears!
it covered the evergreen trees with everlasting lightness (at least, I wished to experience its eternal nature)
and our outdoor Christmas tree which can be seen from my window
(this reminds me of a symbol: the Cross with the Lamb on it)
it covered the bushes
and the berries
and the garden swing, where we usually sit during hot and sultry summer months
and our car
and everybody:)
it almost covered me totally and irrevocably
This doesn't seem almost, this seems irrevocably!
especially hand-made ones for Mom
2009. december 23., szerda
Egy kis Karácsony előtti Hungarikum
Hogy miért? Hát mondjuk azért, mert úgy több, mint egy éve nem sikerült magyar bejegyzést produkálnom, pedig eredendően akartam én, nagyon is, hiszen a blogom jelszava is "bilingual", tehát két nyelven való (nyelveken?:)) szólás...lett volna...aztán valahogy úgy alakult, hogy különféle privát okokból kifolyólag maradt kizárólagosan az angol, szegény anyanyelvet meg mostoha sorsba száműztem...egészen mostanáig.
Karácsony -és a karácsonyi készülődés- tiszteletére ezennel megragadom a lehetőséget, és "vissza a természetbe" felkiáltás helyett "vissza a magyar nyelvhez" jelszóval némi karácsonyi szeretetet mutatva anyanyelvem felé, ezen bejegyzésemet magyarul fogom közzétenni...akkor is, ha most ezzel a lépésemmel jó pár amerikai, kanadai, dél-amerikai, európai, ázsiai és egyéb nemzetiségű lelkes idetévedt emberke olvasói támogatását kell nélkülöznöm...Sebaj, a lényeg hogy ti, magyarjaim, értitek.:) A külföldieket meg majd kárpótlom a jövőben további friss és még frissebb angol bejegyzésekkel. (Talán még németekkel is..:)) Feltéve, ha még akkor is meglesznek, vagy egyáltalán itt lesznek.:)
De addig is, megosztom veletek egy nemrégiben átélt őrült karácsonyi vásárlási napom őrületbe kergető eseménysorozatát. Mindenki maga döntse el, hogy ez mennyire tekinthető normálisnak, abnormálisnak, átlagosnak, rendkívülinek, idegesítőnek vagy egyszerűen csak szerencsétlenül viccesnek, vagy éppen viccesen szerencsétlennek. :)
Jómagam mindezen történésre utólag csak ennyit mondtam: "Hát, úgy látszik, ez sem az én napom ma". Egyre gyakrabban nem birtoklok mostanság napokat.:) Jellemző...
De nézzük csak szépen sorjában. A helyszín egy emberi lényekkel bőven megtöltött többszekciós terrárium: egy budapesti bevásárlóköpont.
Illatszerboltban: samponok többszörös ledöntögetése, hatalmas csattanással durr le a földre, mindeközben összes eladó a közelben.
Könyvesboltban háromrészes vicc-sorozat: 1. először egész könyvsor ledöntése, majd 2. negyedórás sorban való várakozást követően pénztáros bejelenti, hogy az internetes kapcsolat épp most szakadt meg (csak itt, csak most, és csak nekem), türelmet kér 3. még egy kis türelmet kér, és még egy kicsit és még egy kicsit...oké, türelem rózsát terem, gondolom én- de friss, szakadásmentes kétezrest sajnos már nem...ugyanis egy kis gyárilag letépődött sarokrésznek köszönhetően a türelmet kérő pénztáros gyakorolni már nem igazán gyakorolt türelmet az én szerencsétlen kis kétezresem irányába...oké, ez Magyarország, a kétezresek nem lehetnek ám ágrólszakadtak, mint az USA-beli dollárok, micsoda dolog ez kérem. Kezd elegem lenni könyvekből, kétezresből, pénztárosból, alles zusammen: vásárlásból, de éhségből is, úgyhogy irány következő állomásunk,
A Pizzázó: ahol a sok-sok ínycsiklandó pizza közül természetesen sikerül kikérnem a legkevésbé ínycsiklandót, de jó, sebaj, szabad választás bizony olykor beválasztással jár (de legalább nincs rajt' hagyma, ez azért pozitív anti-hungarikum, lássuk be!)
Közben a holdkóros boltjárások kóborló szünetében valamikor hív a fogorvosom: ne fél négyre menjek hozzá másnap, ugyanis négyig áramszünet lesz...nem ám háromig és nem is négytől, hanem pont fél négykor. Fantasztik.
És hogy mi is volt még aznap? Biztos volt még valami...jah igen, a HÉV. (De ez már semmi extra, szinte mindennapos történés). Hazafele úton bizony többször elment az áram és néha furcsa égett palacsinta szagot éreztem...palacsintát viszont sehol se láttam...csak egy csalafinta, furcsa napot a hátam mögött...így még ott és akkor elhatároztam, hogy amint hazaérek,-ha egyáltalán hazaérek még aznap épen és egészben- irány az ágyam, és addig se fogok nyújtózkodni, ameddig a takaróm ér, csak fekszem majd csendben és mozdulatlanul mindaddig, míg szép csendben az éj másik felére nem esem.
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V-É-G-E
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2009. november 29., vasárnap
First Advent Candle of 2009

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A few thoughts I've found what Advent may mean
"Advent is concerned with that very connection between memory and hope which is so necessary to man. Advent’s intention is to awaken the most profound and basic emotional memory within us, namely, the memory of the God who became a child. This is a healing memory; it brings hope. The purpose of the Church’s year is continually to rehearse her great history of memories, to awaken the heart’s memory so that it can discern the star of hope.
It is the beautiful task of Advent to awaken in all of us memories of goodness and thus to open doors of hope." (Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger)
"Each year, God asks us to shed one more coat of awareness, one more dream state and come alive to the vision of God’s plan for each of us and the world-at-large. The older we get, the harder this is to do. As children we had a sense of wonder. Our eyes were wide open and drinking in the fascinating gifts we beheld…Our thirsty souls could not have enough of the wonders of creation.Then, somehow, we grew too old to dream. We tired of the abundance of the world, or at least grew weary of keeping up with the feast of life, and stepped away from the banquet of life.
The natural gift of wonder God gave us as children was meant to be kept alive.…Instead we let wonder go to sleep. We entered the typical dream state of most humans. Why else does Jesus tell us today, ‘Stay awake!’…Advent says, ‘Wake up and realize the gifts of love you have received.' " (Rev. Alfred McBride, O. Praem)
"Life is a constant Advent season: we are continually waiting to become, to discover, to complete, to fulfill. Hope, struggle, fear, expectation and fulfillment are all part of our Advent experience." (CONNECTIONS, 11-28-93)
"May this Advent season be a time for bringing hope, transformation and fulfillment into the Advent of our lives." (CONNECTIONS, 11-28-93)
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2009. november 26., csütörtök
Thanksgiving Day
Thanksgiving Day
Thanks for our health
2009. november 15., vasárnap
Moments from the Cemetery
2009. november 10., kedd
My sweet little nieces



2009. október 31., szombat
It is supposed to be Halloween today...
I know that public opinion is strongly divided into two sides regarding the judgment of Halloween. Some of you like it, some of you don't. Probably you all loved it when you were children, but you grew out of this loving as soon as you became an adult. Now, I'm supposed to be an adult, but I still like Halloween. Then, how is this?!
Well, given that I've been liking both chocolate and spooky things from the earliest years of my existence, and Halloween is obviously the combination of these two, I have very good childhood memories in connection with this 'holiday'. Furthermore, I never ever experienced Halloween in my adult life. Probably this 'non-encounter' with Halloween allowed me to still look at this day with the eye of a child. Maybe, if I met this 'celebration' today, with an adult's mind, I could more or less move myself away from childhood memories and could observe it with an adult's eye that could possibly change opinions and viewpoints in me.
Maybe I wouldn't like it any more.
Maybe I still would.
However, I shall continue to love it as a child, who doesn't yet see its wrong side, only perceives the good. That is the reason I might never meet Halloween in my adult life face to face (though I wanted to...). To keep my childhood memories nice and pure.
Due to this philosophy, my adult side says it is not that bad that we don't have Halloween in Hungary. Though my childish self cries for pumpkins, chocolate and sweets, 'trick or treat'-s, spooky things...
Time to grow up. Or not. ;)
'Happy' Halloween!
P.S. Strictly to kids under 10 (mainly Caleb):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cI1Qr0Tuvqg
2009. október 28., szerda
Preparing myself for Halloween...
No. 1 happening: there must be some problem with my computer because last time when I wanted to download pictures from my SD card, it deleted ALL the pictures...and I nearly went crazy. They were really GREAT pictures. :( Since that moment I do not dare to use the SD card downloader part of the laptop.
No. 2 happening: the weather is cooler nowadays, so my outgoings -and thus my photo-taking acts- significantly dicreased compared to earlier and hotter periods of the year...and even when I went out to take autumn pictures, these photos ceased to exist (see No 1. happening).
No. 3 happening: a few days ago I had an operation so I really did not have the time and/or energy to write. No worry, it was not a big one, it only lasted approximately for half an hour. During the operation an atheroma was taken out of...yeah, of my head (though only affecting the surface area of it, fortunately not my precious brain:)). I don't want to shock you with all the details. Neither verbally with detailed descriptions, nor virtually with disgusting pictures. Okay, to tell the truth, I would love to shock you but I'm afraid then you would not come here any more....and...by the way...Mom told me NOT to even attempt to upload any of these kind of photos at this time (though I have taken a few...). Okay, I obey, no photos this time. Maybe next time;) Pssssssst;)
And why the title 'Preparing myself for Halloween' ? Well, imagine how I look like at the moment. Two days ago some hair was shaved off my head. Horroristic. Then, after the take-out of this small, ball-like atheroma, a bleeding hole was left in my headskin which was succesfully sewed together but to promote healing, a big white antiseptic gauze was also sewed on it. Even more horroristic. This thing soon became a little bit bloody. And it is still so and still there. It is becoming one of my bodyparts. The most horroristic.
Therefore, now I usually wear a little cap so when I go out or meet other people, I don't scare them to death with my Frankenstein appearance. (Though Frankenstein would say: "this is not scary enough". But who cares about his opinion?!).
So this is how I succeeded to literally prepare myself to this year's Halloween.
Very unconscious. Very natural.Very scary. And thus very effective.
At least, would be effective -in the States. To my greatest despair, here in Hungary I cannot harness these 'Halloween virtues' such as fearsome, bloody appearance.
Poor me. But lucky Hungarians!
2009. október 14., szerda
'Summer stories' series: In and Around Budapest
At least until the temperature rises a bit.






In September, we went to see the free (the emphasis is on this:)), so called Face Poster exhibition at Felvonulási tér (it is somewhere between the Heroes Square and the City Park). It is held annually, always having different themes. This year we saw pictures and photos in connection with the World Economic Crisis and advertisements about the importance of pure water. It wasn't bad altogether, though last year I liked it a little more...










































